A beginner wants to self-host a private group chat
The main goal is to run a small self-hosted group chat as an alternative to Discord. A is being considered as the device, but the overall starting point is still unclear.
Trust in Discord has dropped, and account bans connected to AI activity have pushed the move toward alternatives such as Stoat or Revolt. The group lives together, keeps different sleep schedules, and wants channels plus custom emojis so people can talk late at night without waking others.
Moving to a service that is already built around is not the preferred path right now. Basic network choices, such as whether a is safer than a public address, are still confusing.
Key points
- The goal is to replace Discord with a small self-hosted chat space.
- A is being considered, but the setup path is still unclear.
- Channels and custom emojis are important features for the group.
- Stoat and Revolt are being considered as possible alternatives.
- The difference between a and a public address is still a key beginner question.